Surprise! – Oh what fun it is… No really, WHAT?

You’re older – Lets scare you!

Seriously, I have never understood the mystery behind a bunch of people hiding waiting to jump out when you least expect it to yell the word surprise at you. It startles me and I dislike that feeling more than I can began to describe.

Romantic Guessing Game

My other half has always wanted to plan something and tell me to get in the car. I always ask, where are we going? He just claims he wants me to get in and it would be a “surprise.” I have went along with it a few times but it never goes well. I spend the entire time confused. It takes me time to prepare to go places and I have a ‘need’ to know as soon as possible. So f anxiety and wanting to flip out like a fishy out of water is fun. Then I have a blast! I dislike that feeling. I know many women love that sort of thing and would probably hump their guy for something so sweet but I wanted to kick mine in the shin the entire time, really! I’m thankful that he now realizes I love that he cares and plans these things. I still love when he picks something fun and says lets go…. BUT he is able to know that I need to know where we are going to allow myself to get there with him. It’s much more enjoyable for us both that way! 🙂

Roller Costers, Haunted Houses, Scary Movies

Really people pay for this shit. I do not enjoy any of these. I do not like that feeling. All of them startle me. I simply just can not find amusement in any. Not only do I not like them, I don’t get why other people do. I understand we are all different but I can not relate to the fear for fun.

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